Money represents independence for so many in American culture. But what does that independence cost? Lots of folk grow up with very limited financial resources, but few seem to understand just how much having money changes ones persona and thought processes. Over time, the average American goes from not having enough to working too much to get enough and then having enough but never having enough time to enjoy it.
As young graduates embark on their new life journeys I encourage each of you to focus on your passions. Your passion will truly drive you and open doors for you to enjoy life and finances. Keep in mind that not all things happiness related are connected to having money. Money is necessary to get to the expected end but money never brings one true inner peace.
Make peace with your upbringing. There’s no wrong in the life you were born into. Just know that the circumstances you were born into don’t always turn out to be the circumstances that you live throughout your life. This means, just because you were born into poverty or less than desirable financial situations does not mean you have to remain their forever and nor should you feel guilty for leaving that situation for a better one. Likewise, if you were born into affluence it doesn’t mean you’re going to live in that affluence forever. It takes cognitive choices and effort to make positive life changes. You’re energy, effort and dedication will dictate your growth and ultimately sustainability in life.
Remember, quick money isn’t always easy and can be the seed to death if done the wrong way. Set goals for yourself and your money. Identify what you consider success and don’t be thrown off course by someone else’s definition of your success. Take time to invest in you. You’re worth it!
-Sojourner Doc
